Hi people, some amazing writer wrote this on NL, without
full credit to his name. Unknown to him, he has just saved a million guys
plenty of money.
Here we go.
So she has accepted to go out with you at last. You have
fixed the day and time for your first date. You are anxious because you want to
impress her. You want to leave a good impression because you know that first
impression matters. You want to make her your bae, don’t you?
My brothers bring out your calculators, biros and sheets of
paper, let’s do some calculations.
How much are you prepared to spend on the first date? What
are the things that you would buy?
Write them down.
You would probably end up with a list like this…..
Two plates of fried rice salad with chicken – N1400
Drinks of her favourite brand – N1500
Barbecued fish – N1000
Meatpie, fish pie, burger, Shawarma etc – N2000
Ice cream – N800
Take away food pack for her friends – N1200
Movie cinema ticket/popcorn – N3000
Expenses on a short visit to the shopping mall – N5000
Add up the figures and let’s see the total amount you have
arrived at. Is that amount moderate or too high? Well, let me ask you a
question…
Bro are you inviting her to come and gorge herself to death
with food or do you want to get to know her better?
Now take up that sheet of paper and squeeze it. Tear it into
tiny bits and throw them into the waste basket.
Sit down and let’s reason together.
What is your definition of a date?
The conventional meaning of a date appointment is a period
of time when the man takes the woman out to a fancy restaurant, buys her food
and watches her gobble it up. The man says nice things to her in a bid to
impress her. At the end of the date he pays the bills hoping to get a peck from
her as compensation for his trouble. They leave the restaurant together and
part ways, promising to meet some other time at some other venue.
*Yawns*
Aren’t restaurant dates too cliché and boring?
If you ask Dr Leroi he would tell you that a date should be
a period of time where the two parties share fun activities. Yes it should only
be two parties!
Guys what should you do to a girl who turns up to a dinner
date with all of her 12 girlfriends in tow? I think the best option is to run!
Who wants to wash plates in a fast-food’s kitchen?*shrugs shoulders*
Drop your ego. Drop the “I need to impress her with my
money” attitude.
It does not matter whether you are a millionaire,
thousandaire or hundrednaire, you can have a nice date experience spending only
200 naira. Most guys don’t know that a lady will prefer doing fun stuffs when
hanging out with you rather than sitting down to lick an ice cream cone at an
upscale fast food joint.
The D-day is here. You have to make adequate preparation.
Buy two bottles of chilled Zobo drink and a medium sized
packet of cream crackers biscuit. That should cost you roughly N200 or N300.
Toss them inside a backpack and hang it on your back. This will serve as your
date food.
The cool zobo drink helps to relieve high blood pressure and
has low sugar content. The cream crackers biscuit is low in calories and is
also a rich source of B complex vitamins. I am telling you bro, you will score
major points on her score sheet when you turn with these snacks. It will send a
strong signal that you are a caring guy who is concerned about her healthy
dieting. However if she slaps you when you present these snacks to her, please
don’t take it personal. Just know that she is feigning anger to cover up her
over-excitement. Okay?
Arrange for a takeoff point for the date. It could be her
place or a public place in the city.
Go and look for a bicycle. You can hire one for the occasion
then show up at the takeoff point with the bicycle.
Hey don’t give me that weird look, yes I meant a bicycle,
the one with a passenger seat. Don’t go with your car! The bicycle must be in
good condition oh. It should not be the creaky ones with long disjointed spokes
that can pierce her soft skin.
She will be definitely surprised to see you with a bicycle.
Tell her that you are trying something new for a change. Ask her to hop onto
the bike for a ride with you.
The lady will find the offer ridiculous but at the same time
she will be curious and excited because you are leading her to an adventure.
She will sit on the bicycle’s seat after a while. Err…my brother before she
hops in, make sure that she is not the overweight type that will deflate the
bicycle’s tires. If someone’s daughter falls down and dislocates her waist, you
are on your own! Your date will be turned to hate. So use the bicycle procedure
only for a slim babe.
If you don’t have access to a bicycle, use a motor bike or
if the girl is too fat don’t worry, your feet will do just fine. Convince her
to take a stroll with you to your chosen destination.
Take a really long walk in one direction, passing through
streets, neighbourhoods, checking out things along the way.
As you both stroll or ride on, you have to be funny to get
her attention. Crack a couple of jokes that will keep her laughing or else she
would suddenly ask herself “what the heck am I doing on this bicycle?” If you
allow such thoughts to gain entry into her head, that will be the beginning of
the end of your “date”. Please remember to keep your jokes nice and civil. Let
your jokes not be the dry as harmattan Akpos jokes. Okay?
While she is still laughing her heart out to your
wisecracks, quietly ask her to help you choose a good shirt in a nearby
boutique. She will jump at the offer.
This is because you are putting yourself up as the little
boy who wants mama to help him choose a good shirt since he can’t decide for
himself. Women love this power. She wouldn’t know that you are using reverse
psychology on her.
When you both enter the shop, you should do a bit of window
shopping. Move from one clothing rack to the other gazing at the clothes on
display. Please bro don’t allow her to wander off into the female clothes and
accessories section. When you notice her eyes straying towards that section,
put your arms round her shoulders and gently lead her away because if she gets
in there and stays there for five minutes, your N200 naira budget will be
grossly inadequate and you will have explain to her why you can’t buy her that
silver necklace!
She will help you choose a nice shirt. Don’t pay for that
shirt right there and then. Walking into the boutique was part of your strategy
to have a fun time with her. You must follow your strategy to the end. You can
always go back later to the shop to buy and pick up the shirt! Are we still on
the same page? Alright.
Ride away with her this time to a public park. Choose a
section of the park that has some privacy and open your backpack bringing out
your “picnic box”.
You both will discover that the Zobo drink and cream
crackers biscuit will taste extra great because you two are having a simple
fun-time. Life is simple but we insist on making it complicated….isn’t that a
quote from the great philosopher Confucius?
Use that opportunity to take as many selfies as possible
with each other. If she is really having a good time, she would make the
following faces for the pictures: duck face, tongue hanging from mouth face,
pouting face, frog face, doll face and a variety of facial expressions known
only to the female species as you snap away.
You will realize that you would not have been that happy and
free spirited if you were to be in a cinema watching an overhyped movie that
you both don’t really care about.
In the course of your chit chat let her know that you are a
novice at cooking and that you can only boil water for eba. Ask her to help you
out with some cooking recipes and tips. My brother i am telling you she will
take it upon herself to educate you. She will see you as the poor boy who can’t
cook to save his life and needs urgent help from mama. She will even want to
cook a sample dish for you. This may end up with her visiting your place to
show you how to slice the vegetable leaves and when to pour in the pepper and
crayfish in the soup pot.
But if she declines to visit you, don’t stress it. Overtime
she will naturally fix a convenient date on her own accord.
Guys there you have it. Both of you are enjoying the date.
You have been able to pull it off without breaking into a bank. You have broken
the dating stereotype.
Source: NL
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