Nigerians are famous for our many proverbs and wise sayings that stand
the test of time. Here are some below from a father to his son. Really
priceless.
1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never
asked you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention,
don’t marry her.
2. My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could
be a good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to
you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go.
3. My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the
kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where
they worked every morning . . . that was our office.
4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the house,
don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.
5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be
in- charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s
aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she will
keep you asking even when all has been spent.
6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body
is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be
in trouble living with a wounded woman.
7. My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor
kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again.
8. My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children
because of our large farm- lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land
for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.
9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother
could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet
thing we did there was to embrace each other.
10. My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more
money, instead of
spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked
to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along.
11. My son, when I threw little stones or whistled at the
window of your mother
father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex, it was
because I missed her so much.
12. My son, remember, when you say your wife has changed,
there could be something you’ve stopped doing too.
13. My son, your mother rode the bicycle with me before I
bought that tortoise car
outside there, any woman that won’t endure with you in your
little beginning should not enjoy your riches.
14. My son, don’t compare your wife to any woman, there are
ways she’s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man.
15. My son, there is this thing you people call feminism,
well, if a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all
the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying the
other part.
16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams
to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I
didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.
17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I
was foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend my family name,
please don’t make that mistake, the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has
made the male-gender an ordinary tag.
18. My son, your mother have once locked up the cloth I was
wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, I did not raise my hand to
beat her because of a day like this, so that I can be proud to tell you that I
never for once beat your mother.
19. My son, in our days, our women had more of natural
beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their
appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don’t
forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like your women of
nowadays.
20. My son, your mother and I are not interested in what
happens in your marriage, try to handle issues without always coming to us.
21. My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing
machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing
yours.
22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother, so
that your children will take care of you too.
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