It's quite weird because it can't be explained to anyone who hasn't felt it before
Love is many things and sometimes the right words can't be
found to explain it. The only this is that love can be felt and the feeling is
one of the best things on earth.
It's quite weird because it can't be explained to anyone who
hasn't felt it before. Even if you are feeling love, how do you explain to yourself
what you are experiencing?
Neecey Beresford of All Women Stalk lists 9 things about
love that is hard to explain:
Love is mutual:
Love is impossible to explain because you are only ever on one side of it. Sure
you are familiar with the feeling of loving another, but in a weird way you
will never fully be able to understand what it is like when somebody loves you.
All the adjectives in the world can't match the real emotions, and that's what
makes it such as incredible mystery.
Love has no
reason:
We all know that no matter how hard we try, we cannot choose who we
fall in love with! If a certain set of standard criteria was there to be
checked off, the process would be a lot easier, but the truth is there is no
real reason for loving who we love, apart from the fact that, well, cupid’s
metaphorical arrow is struck!
Nature cannot
account for it: In terms of nature, it's clear that humans, much like animals,
are drawn together in order to procreate and further the species. But what
nature cannot explain is where love develops and enters in to the equation. All
the hard science in the world couldn't give a valid reason for loving someone
who doesn't love you back, or vice versa!
Love come before
truth:
The power of love is so great and inexplicable that it very often
overrides our natural instinct to tell the truth. It could be a fib as small as
ensuring your friend that her ugly dress is beautiful or as big as hiding a
pet’s death from a child, but whatever the matter, the great mysterious power
of love forces us to lie to protect the ones we care about.
Trying to explain
it makes it even more complicated: Being in love is almost like trying to
recall a dream; the harder you try the less clear you seem to become! In a way,
this could be down to the fact that we as humans, well, love the idea of love!
Trying to confine to simple terms something so wonderful doesn't seem right.
Love is never
ending cycle:
Love is also so hard to define because it is not exclusive to any
one person and it never has, or ever had, a definitive start or end point. Love
is a universally shared experience that breaks barriers and boundaries that
exists through #time, through space, through everything. There are not many
other #things that can boast that!
If it were not for the inexplicable presence and capacity for love within us, it would be fair to argue that the human race would have destroyed itself by now. Our overall innate need to care for and #look after one another remains the basis of society, after all, all you need is love!
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